Monday, May 27, 2013

MAY 27, 2013: HYRUM'S LETTER #2

LETTER FROM HYRUM: MAY 27, 2013

I have the feeling that almost every one of these letters is going to start with something along the lines of "Wow, what a week!"
Wow, what a week!
Every single day here is chock full of things to do. Almost every minute from 6:30 to 10:30 is scheduled. It's exhausting, but also incredible! I've never felt so productive in one day than I do now. We are truly living the law of consecration, and giving every minute and part of our lives to the Lord. It's an amazing feeling, and I'm glad I get to do that for the next two years.

My Chinese is coming. It feels like it's coming really slowly, but then I remember that I've only been here like 11 days. At that point, my brain explodes. It feels like so much longer. It's cool because some expressions are becoming habits in Chinese. My favorite things to say are "dui bu qi" which translates roughly to "excuse me", "nimen hao" which translates roughly to "Hey, y'all", and "wo de tong ban zai nali?" which means "Where is my companion??"

Chinese is awesome, because it has NO TENSE. That means that if you want to say something happened yesterday, you just put the word yesterday in the sentence and say the same verb. Everybody who has learned a conjugating language, eat your heart out. The grammar is fairly simple. There aren't any articles to deal with, you just stick all the important words right next to each other. THAT SAID, Chinese is really difficult. The difficulty comes from the fact that nothing in Chinese corresponds even remotely to it's English equivalent, and because there isn't any similar language to compare them (think Latin or Germanic), words often don't translate directly, or there are three different ways to say "can" that all mean different things even though English only has one. On top of that, there are tones. If you don't say the word with the right inflection, then you're saying the wrong word!

It'll come though. I'm still frequently amazed at how far we have come in the incredibly short time we've been here. I've been told that 1 week in the MTC is equivalent to 1 month in the field which is equivalent to 4 months in any other place. That, my friends, is the gift of tongues at work.

I absolutely LOVE my district. I was admittedly a little skeptical, as I usual am, when we met. I wasn't sure if it would be a fun group of people. Boy was I wrong. The MTC is hard and all, but the MTC is also incredibly FUN. This group of people is a large part of what makes it fun. It's a little like band camp. Or choir camp or church camp or anything like that. You find that group of new people you didn't know before, and by the end of the camp, you are best friends and you never want to leave them. That's what the past week and a half has been for our district. And we've still got 8 weeks to go! I think I've laughed more in the past week and a half than I did the whole last semester! These people are great!

I think the MTC is just everything at once, because as well as being really difficult and really fun, it's also really spiritual. I remember on Saturday when I walked back through those gates after being out on the field. There is a tangible difference in feeling between outside the MTC, and inside the MTC. It's so real. The Spirit lives here, constantly, and it's so powerful. Even sitting in a somewhat noisy room in the computer lab here with 20 clicking keyboards, I can still feel that same Spirit. It's incredibly uplifting, and I know I want to cherish the next 8 weeks that I can continue to have that feeling here constantly.

"This is my desk in my room that I'm never at because we're always in the classroom. Thanks to everyone who sent me stuff to put up, especially Mason for his picture!"
Some other fun things:
-There was a Sister in the Cafeteria whose nametag said "Sister Richardson", and I didn't know why (then), but I stopped her and commented on how I hadn't seen any other Richardsons. Well, it turned out that she was from Mesa, AZ and that we were second cousins! Her grandpa is Grandpa Jay's twin brother. I thought that was pretty cool!

-All of the people going to Taiwan had to give a stool sample last week. I'm trying to forget that.
-I think it was Thursday when my companion and I came in from studying outside, and there was this old guy without a nametag talking the some of the people in my district classroom. Well, I'm glad we were nice to him, because it turned out he was the General Sunday School President, who had somehow picked our class to come observe for a little while. We were all glad we were on task and studying while he was there!

-I also saw my Mission Prep teacher from Winter semester in the health clinic last week. That was really neat!
-A big Thank You to Sami for giving me my nice journal. I write in it every night, like we're supposed to. Xie Xie Ni!

Thank you so much to everyone who has sent me letters! So here's the thing: we are only allowed to write letters on P-Day, which for us is Monday. And the mail room is closed on Saturday and Sunday and they don't print the dearelders until 5 o clock each day. So last week, right after my letter writing time was up (P-Day ends at 6) I got a huge stack of letters, and I've had to wait all week to reply to them! But since it's memorial day, and sadly, the temple is closed, I'll have more time to write today, and I should be able to reply to all of you. So if you want me to reply to you on a Monday, try to send dearelders in before 4 o'clock (MDT) the Friday before! I wish it was a better system, but it's not and that's okay. 

Thank you so much for sending me letters! It's so exciting every day after dinner to see if I got anything, and I read your letter at least three times during the week. It's such a strength to me.

Please continue to pray for me. I know that I need it!
Until next week,
Tian Zhanglao
Elder Richardson

MAY 14, 2013 -- PACKING FOR THE MTC

PACKING HYRUM FOR HIS MISSION
MAY 14, 2013

In all the excitement of getting Hyrum to the MTC, I forgot to post these few pictures of the night before when we packed him up!!!  This is all Hyrum will carry with him to live for 2 years!  There is a lot of value in simplicity!!!
We got Hyrum a new set of scriptures for his mission.  This small, compact size will be nice for him.  It was to small to fit "Elder Richardson" so I went with "Elder Hyrum."  I liked it!
From the time Hyrum was set apart as a "full-time missionary" he took that seriously.  No cell phone, no radio, no electronics, etc.  Hyrum took time to sit down and continue to get familiar with the guidelines in the "Missionary Handbook."  Some missionaries through the years have joked and called it the "Missionary Bible" or the "Little White Bible." 
This is it!!!  Hyrum's personal belongings for 2 years!
He has: 10 white short sleeved shirts, 2 long sleeved white shirts, 10 ties, 12 pair of black socks, 2 pair of black shoes, PJs, exercise clothes, rain jacket, umbrella, 1 suit, 5 additional slacks, shower shoes, sandles for Taiwann, 1 set of sheets, power converter, passport holder, scriptures, dirty clothes bag, a few hangers, 12 pair of garments, a super durable belt -- "a rachet belt!", a new watch, battery alarm clock, bath towel, hand towel -- and that is about it!
Basic necessities!





Monday, May 20, 2013

MAY 20, 2013 -- PICTURES FROM THE FIRST DAYS AT THE MTC

HYRUM'S FIRST FEW DAYS AT THE MTC


We were so excited today to find pictures in our inbox from Hyrum!!
It is fun to feel Hyrum's great enthusiasm!  Wow!

A few more "pre-MTC" pictures
SAYING GOODBYE IN ARKANSAS

"Me and my little brother Mason right before I left"

Me and my Dad!  It is good to know that someone in the family 
knows what I am going through!

All of my mission stuff spread out all over the floor.

Hyrum just couldn't wait until he received his name tag so it isn't a surprise that  he took a picture to show us!  Super cool!
The Chinese reads: The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
MY NAMETAG!!!!

My bag a language materials.  It really did weigh 12 pounds!

Missionary schedule for the first week at the MTC


My ministerial license to teach in Taiwann.


 My ID badge, room key and a vial of oil to keep with me at all times.

Cinnamon rolls from my sister! They were eaten very 
quickly by a roomful of hungry elders!

My address and departure date


Bi Zhanglao, wo de tongban
(Elder Bake, my companion)


Ai Zhanlao, one of my roommates


On the left, Wei Zhanglao, the last of my roommates 
and on the right, other elders in my district


I got mail!!!
Thanks Dad and Deanna and Jamie!
Your replies are on their way!


My whole district in front of the Provo Temple on Sunday!!

Me, Hyrum, in front of the Provo Temple

Tired after a long day of church meetings.

Sunday, May 19, 2013

MAY 17, 2013 -- HYRUM'S FIRST LETTER

HYRUM'S FIRST LETTER
MAY 17, 2013
Photo taken by Melissa's friend who teaches at the MTC! :)

Mom and Family:                                                            (Thursday, May 16, 2013)
Wow, I've only been here 24 hours but it feels much, much longer than that!
We've done so much in that short period of time that it feels like I've been here two or three days.
It was a pretty slick system after I left from the drop-off point.  They made sure I was the right person, and that I was endowed and all that stuff.  The I got a key, an ID card, ad my name badge!  I've got a picture which I will e-mail on P-Day, Monday.
Then I got thrown into a classroom with a teacher who didn't speak a single word of English for an hour.  Melissa, it was a lot like they taught Startalk, but more intense.  Chinese is hard!  I remember some of it, but not a lot of words.  The biggest help has been knowing some of the pin-yin pronunciations.  That has gotten me jump started on the language and has helped quite a bit.  Doesn't make it easy though.
The gift of tongues is so real!  If you don't get anything else out of my hastily written letters the next 8 weeks, know that.
I got a little inkling of the Spirit me blessing me with speaking Chinese today.  I'll need even more for tomorrow afternoon (Friday) when we teach our first investigator -- entirely in Mandarin.
So all the missionaries here are broken down into branches with branch presidencies.  Our branch contains all of the Mandarin speaking  missionaries at the MTC.  There are about 60 of us, and there will be about 100 in two weeks.
Right now, there are just two generations -- missionaries who came in at the same time -- and there'll be another one soon.
Our sacrament meeting will be entirely in Mandarin -- every prayer, talk and hymn, including the Sacrament prayers.  Each
missionary prepares a 5 minutes talk and two are randomly called on each Sunday to speak, all in Mandarin!
Our district is a smaller subset of our generation who we have classes with.  Both Sister Bag from my freshman ward and Sister Porter, Matt Porter's sister, are in my district.
I've also seen a lot of people I know who are here at the MTC.  Like, at least 7 or 8.  I've also seen Aaron and Celia from band who work here in the cafeteria.
Other tidbits:
  • 660 missionaries reported with me on Wednesday (May 15th 2013)
  • 4000 people are on staff here (at the MTC-- Missionary Training Center)
  • We (Hyrum's group) leave July 16 -- 9 1/2 weeks
  • The blue bag of books really did weigh 12 lbs (picture pending)
  • My companion is pretty good.  Elder Bake is quiet, but he's got a good sense of humor and we get along well.  He doesn't have any (Chinese) background, so I'm helping him out.

We learned so much Chinese today. It's now Thursday night -- I ran out of time earlier today -- and I can now bear my testimony in Chinese!  It's pretty amazing how much the Spirit can help!
I won't normally be able to write letters during the week, only on Mondays.  This is a special condition because it's the first few days.
It'd be easier if you sent all your letters to me through "dearelder.com".  Then I can read throughout the week and I'll have more time to reply on Monday.
Hopefully, I'll be able to mail this tomorrow morning.

Thanks for your prayers!
Elder Hyrum Richardson

Wednesday, May 15, 2013

MAY 15, 2013 -- HYRUM REPORTS TO THE MTC

HYRUM REPORTS TO THE MTC
MAY 15, 2013
 
I didn't ever believe that this day would actually come when I would take my own son to the MTC to begin serving his full-time mission for the Lord! 
He has prepared his entire life -- and we have worked to prepare him his entire life -- for this day!  I love Hyrum so much and I know that he is ready to sacrifice 2 years in the service of our God so that he may teach people of Jesus Christ in Taiwann.  He is ready.  He is willing. He has begun his mission.
May the Lord bless and protect my son as he serves.
 
As we zipped up his suitcases this afternoon, Hyrum said, "My life will never be the same!"  I agreed and responded, "And you will never regret it."
 
Here are some pictures of our day:
 
We started our day with a free meal at Denny's! 
Denny's in Provo gives a free meal to missionaries going to the MTC!
So Hyrum ordered the Meat Lovers' Omlet and Hot Chocolate!
 
Next, we went to say a final goodbye to Robert, Alison and our new little Abigail!  I had to have a good picture of Hyrum and Abigail.  When Hyrum returns home from his mission in 2 years, Abigail will be walking and talking!!!
Today she was just 26 hours old!
 
Robert told Hyrum that the first full day in the MTC is the longest day of your life!  Second only to the first full day in the mission field!
Hyrum is pumped and ready!
 
Next, we went and picked up Melissa who is so excited for Hyrum knowing that in just less than 2 months, she will be repeating this whole process herself!
We went to take some pictures in front of the MTC.  There are hundreds of Missionaries reporting to the MTC each Wednesday and so you basically drive up, give a hug and drop off.  We needed our time for pictures!
Melissa, Hyrum and Mom (Connie) in front of the MTC
 
ELDER HYRUM JAY RICHARDSON
 
 
 
 
Hyrum and Melissa -- our missionaries
What is kind of fun and funny is that Hyrum, Melissa and Alison will literally only be a 10 minute walk from each other and Melissa is literally across the street in the Foreign Language Housing of BYU; yet, they are world's apart.
I wonder if they will ever meet in passing???
 
MTC DROP OFF
It didn't all really hit me until we pulled up to the entrance of the MTC at 1:26pm this afternoon of May 15, 2013.
Wow.  A mix of emotions!  Exciting, heart longing to hold on -- there is not other place I would rather he be for the next 2 years.
I know that his mission will give Hyrum opportunity to grow and mature in ways that will bless him the rest of his life and throughout eternity!
What a blessing as a parent to have your child choose to serve a mission.
 
One last big long hug and an "I love you!"
Mom's final words of advice,
"Leave it all out on the court!  Have no regrets!"


 
 As we pulled up to our drop off spot, Hyrum reminding me of advice that Mossi White, our dear friend, had given us.  She advised that after the final hug, look forward and don't look back.  He said, "Mom, I'm not going to look back."  I said that was OK.  Here is Hyrum going forward and not looking back! 
He is in the Lord's hands now for 2 years.
 
 Take care my son!
We love you!
We look forward to hearing your voice and talking to you on Christmas Day!!