SAYING GOODBYE -- SAYING HELLO
May 1, 2018
Alright, are you ready for this? Because I'm not! Elder Ogden!! Why do you have to leave me!!
Missionaries serve missions (Obviously), with Elders (men) serving approximately 2 years, and Sisters (women) serving approximately 18 months. My companion, Elder Ogden, who has trained me so far, has served his two years, and has been preparing to go home. It's really weird, having this book-ending experience: with me just starting my Mission and him finishing it. He was talking about a friend yesterday, and he said, "Oh, I guess I'll see him this Friday. Elder! Don't ever go home!!"
It's really bittersweet, going home from your mission. Your life has been dedicated to God and doing His work for 2 whole years, and then you have to go home. What's that like? Weird, according to Elder Ogden.
When I was younger, I really didn't understand what serving a mission was all about, so I thought that coming home to my family and friends would be an entirely positive experience. But I love my Mission. I already have learn so much in this spiritual environment that I never really "got" before. I'm meeting wonderful people who are going through hard things, and yet they keep their faith in Jesus Christ. They teach me as much as I teach them. And that's something that will still exist beyond the mission, but there are other things that can get in the way that get put away while you're on a Mission. TL;DR, going home seems fun, and is fun, but it's also hard.
Anyways, because Elder Ogden was going home, a lot of the week was just plain crazy! For example, President and Sister Dixon wanted the departing missionaries to have one last trip to the Temple together. So Elder Ogden and I went to go visit Elder Holton, who is also leaving, and his companion Elder Clarkson. Elders Ogden and Holton left to go to the Temple, and I stayed with Elder Clarkson in his area.
And Oh Boy! We had some fun! We had a list of people that we wanted to go visit, and we knocked on one door, but nobody answered. So we mounted our bikes and got to the end of his driveway, and noticed this box by the road. This box is full of awesome VCR's! We saw White Christmas and Singing in the Rain, and I really wanted to take them. But Elder Clarkson said No. But then we found an old Jackie Chan movie, and we knew that if we didn't leave right away, we'd be stuck there another hour looking at the old movies!
We also went by this one house, and instead of a man named Larry, this woman came out and told us that Larry had moved. My thought was, "Welp, let's go to the next house." Elder Clarkson, on the other hand, started talking to her, and handed her a pamphlet with our number, as well as a Book of Mormon! I asked him.about it later, and he said that learning how to open our mouths and seeing opportunities to invite just comes with time of being a Missionary. I can't wait to get to that point, but I need to be patient for that day.
As we were talking, we heard this loud BANG!!! It sounded like it was right behind us too!
"Hey, Elder Clarkson? Was that a firework, or a gunshot?"
"Um... Let's Get out of here."
So we biked like CRAZY to get out of there! I still don't know what happened, but I'm glad that I only heard the sound. We were kept safe, for sure!
The crowning moment of the week for me was our first lesson with Riley, who I talked about last week. We met with him and his friend (The one that invited him to Invitation Sunday) and his family. We taught about The Gospel of Jesus Christ, which is at the Core of everything Jesus Christ taught, and everything His Apostles and Prophets have taught. I'll talk a little more about the different lessons at a different point, but the lesson went really well! The family bore their testimonies of what they knew, and we set up a return appointment for this next week! And, apparently, when we left, he asked the family, "What do you think they'll teach next?"
It's so great to see those people who have been prepared by the Lord be so excited about hearing His Gospel! But I know that none of the impact or the feelings he felt were from anything Elder Odgen or I said. It all came from the Spirit, or the Holy Ghost, which was there in the lesson. But I am honored by the ability to help others to feel that Spirit that I have felt, and to testify of Jesus Christ. I know that He Lives, and that He loves us so much that He gave us His gospel, so that we can come to live with Him again!
And a lot of stuff is going crazy this week, with new companions and new missionaries coming in, but that's OK! I'm excited to keep serving the people of Fontana with Elder Bearman (who I meet Wednesday!!), and excited to be finding more people to love and teach as the Savior would!
Keeping on!
Elder Richardson
P.S. Sorry for the Lateness and shortness of emails! I've been having technical difficulties or something. I should be a lot less rushed next week... I hope...
1) So this one family made these desserts, and they are officially the most adorable desserts I've ever had!
2) That family who hosted(?) our lesson with Riley gave both Elder Ogden and I California Flags!! I Love this Bear!!!
Benjamin Richardson
California Redlands Mission
Feb 28, 2018 - March 3, 2020